Debug Your Mind: A 3-Step Framework to Unlock Wealth & Relationship Flow
28/10/2025
You know the feeling.
A golden opportunity lands in your lap. Instead of seizing it, you hesitate. You overthink, find
every possible flaw, and watch it slip through your fingers.
You connect with an amazing person, but a quiet voice whispers, "Just wait... they’ll see the real
you." So you pull away, say the wrong thing, and find yourself alone—again.
You swear, "Next time will be different." But the same internal loop plays over and over, blocking
your financial flow and sabotaging your relationships.
Let's be clear: This isn't a motivation issue. It's an operating system issue.
You're running on Brittle.OS—a system corrupted by a core belief virus: "I am not enough." This
virus runs silently in the background, automatically triggering self-doubt, fear, and retreat.
For over 15 years, I was a SCRUM Master and software tester, debugging complex technical
systems. My biggest breakthrough came when I started applying that same rigorous logic to the
human mind. I now use a Cognitive QA Framework to help people debug their inner world and
perform a complete system upgrade.
The goal? To migrate from the fragile Brittle.OS to the resilient Bamboo.OS—where triggers are
mere system alerts, joy is your core metric, and your inner child is your lead innovator.
Ready for the upgrade? Here is the 3-step debugging protocol.
✅ Step 1: Find the Root Bug — Run a "Belief X-Ray"
You can't patch a bug you can't see. Step one is to scan your mental source code and locate the
exact faulty line.
The Method: Recall the last specific moment you felt "stuck" in a money or relationship
scenario.
The Debugging Question: "When I felt that fear, what was the core belief about *myselfthat felt
undeniably true?"
The Root Bug: The answer is almost always a variation of:
"I am unlovable as I am." (Relationship Bug)
"I am not worthy of abundance." (Wealth Bug)
"I must be perfect to be safe/loved." (Universal Bug)
Your Move: Right now, write down the root bug you've identified. Writing it down pulls it from the
shadows into the light, where you can finally deal with it.
✅ Step 2: Break the Cycle — Execute a "Cognitive Force Quit"
When the "I'm not enough" program boots up, your body defaults to a fight-or-flight state. You
need a powerful interrupt command to halt it.
The Method: The "Somatic Interrupt"
1. The second you feel the familiar anxiety (tight chest, rapid breath), immediately stand up.
2. Clap your hands sharply three times, or stamp your foot firmly on the ground.
3. As you do, state in a clear, firm voice: "Stop! This is just a bug in my Brittle.OS. This
feeling is not reality."
Why It Works: This physical action acts as a circuit breaker for your brain. It jolts you out of the
automated loop, transforming you from a passive *userto the active *administratorof your own
mind.
✅ Step 3: Lock In the New Code — Install the "I Can" Firmware
Merely thinking "I can do it" won't cut it. You have to install the new belief on a somatic and
energetic level, making it your new default setting.
The Method: "Somatic Anchoring"
1. Write Your New Command: Transform the root bug from Step 1 into a short, positive,
powerful statement. For example, "I am not worthy" becomes "I am worthy of love and
abundance."
2. Generate the Feeling: Close your eyes. Vividly recall a memory—however small—where
you felt truly capable, loved, or prosperous. Fully immerse yourself in the *physical
sensation(warmth, expansion, calm).
3. Set the Anchor: At the peak of that feeling, make a distinct physical gesture (e.g., pressing
your thumb and forefinger together, or placing your hand over your heart).
4. Lock It In: Repeat this process daily. Crucially, use your anchor *right afteryou complete a
small, positive action. This "rewards" the new neural pathway and supercharges it with tangible
proof.
This isn't just positive thinking. This is conscious system engineering.
By consistently applying this 3-step Cognitive QA protocol, you initiate the migration from
Brittle.OS to Bamboo.OS. In your new operating system:
🌿 Triggers are no longer threats; they are invaluable alerts pointing to an upgrade opportunity.
🌿 Joy and Peace become your non-negotiable core metrics for success.
🌿 Your inner child is no longer a source of pain, but your most creative Chief Innovation
Officer.
The cycle ends here. The new code is ready to install.
I'm Mihri, your Inner Systems Architect. If you're ready to move beyond the blog post and get
hands-on with a personalized debugging session, I invite you to explore my coaching programs.
Let's build a life that doesn't just function—but flourishes.